Why You’re Always the One Who Gets Burnt in a Relationship

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When it comes to romance, people who are the most giving get the most burnt if and only if they were giving in order to get.

When you do this, you blind yourself to the reality of the situation and who the person that you’re giving to actually is. And then when you get burnt, you wonder, “How could they??” But you had a role to play. You can’t play innocent…

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Former Edu. Psychologist | Current Writer | Constant Learner | “By your stumbling the world is perfected.”

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Former Edu. Psychologist | Current Writer | Constant Learner | “By your stumbling the world is perfected.”

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