Two Perspectives on Why We Chase Unavailable People

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There is an ecosystem of people who are afraid of dating because they are afraid that committing to someone might ruin the rest of their lives. In all honesty, it’s a fair concern.

If you witnessed your parents play out this dynamic with each other or you were subjected to parenting where your needs were not attended to enough or were inconsistently attended to, you are…

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Former Edu. Psychologist | Current Writer | Constant Learner | “By your stumbling the world is perfected.”

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