To Increase Your Love, Increase the Freedom You Give

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“Ultimately, true love and true freedom are the same.” — David Deida

I remember the debates I had with an ex about whether or not possessiveness was loving.

When she quizzed me about why I didn’t ask about some guy she mentioned or why I didn’t demand that she stop talking to the guys in her life, I answered that I trusted that she valued our…

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Former Edu. Psychologist | Current Writer | Constant Learner | “By your stumbling the world is perfected.”

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Jason Henry

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Former Edu. Psychologist | Current Writer | Constant Learner | “By your stumbling the world is perfected.”

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