This is Why You Saw the Red Flag and Ignored It

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“How do you know they aren’t the one? At the first sight of total disregard for your hurt, your gut will feel uneasy. I’m reminding you to listen up.” — Alfa Holden

I think the great irony of dating is that as you sit down for that first date or as soon as you talk for the first time, something inside of you knows the fate of the relationship.

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Former Edu. Psychologist | Current Writer | Constant Learner | “By your stumbling the world is perfected.”

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Former Edu. Psychologist | Current Writer | Constant Learner | “By your stumbling the world is perfected.”

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