The Psychology of Why Opposites Attract

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Perhaps one of the most obvious traits I have is that I’m an agreeable guy. I get along with most and if I don’t get along with someone, it is what it is. I just chalk it up to incompatibility and move along.

Years ago, I was talking to a colleague who pointed out that the reason certain types of people gravitate towards agreeable people is because those are the only types of people that can…

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Former Edu. Psychologist | Current Writer | Constant Learner | “By your stumbling the world is perfected.”

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