The Primary Thought that Blocked Me from Healthy Relationships

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My ex-girlfriend brought to my attention a few years ago that I might not actually want a committed relationship. I was confused and asked her why. She said that I didn’t act like I wanted her enough and I seemed too passive.

I dismissed her reasoning because I had spent years trying to be with her, but the sentiment that I might not want a relationship…