So What if They Didn’t Love You?

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We get so caught up in whether or not someone likes us that we are completely blind to how simple attraction is.

Attraction is all about whether or not someone mirrors your values, whether physical or emotional. If they do, you will feel something for them. If they don’t, you won’t feel anything.

The part about attraction that is sometimes mystifying is why we value what we value.

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Former Edu. Psychologist | Current Writer | Constant Learner | “By your stumbling the world is perfected.”

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Jason Henry

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Former Edu. Psychologist | Current Writer | Constant Learner | “By your stumbling the world is perfected.”

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