Sex and Love are Not the Same Thing

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I’ve been a horn-ball for as long as I can remember and thankfully, I’ve always had a little voice telling me, “love and sex are not the same thing.”

I think I always knew that, but it was easy for me to conflate the two.

In my mid to late twenties, I damn near forgot all about that warning. I’d spent my teenage years learning what I really wanted in a relationship and going…