How to Cut Your Attachment to Someone

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Breakups can be difficult. That’s why many people demand closure. Closure, in this context, is all about receiving a “good” explanation as to why things had to end.

The person who is breaking things off never needs closure because they have all the reasons for wanting to end things. It is the person on the receiving end who has to make sense of the relationship’s conclusion.

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Former Edu. Psychologist | Current Writer | Constant Learner | “By your stumbling the world is perfected.”

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Jason Henry

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Former Edu. Psychologist | Current Writer | Constant Learner | “By your stumbling the world is perfected.”

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