How My Codependent Friend Escaped a Bad Romance

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“The greatest hallmark of codependency is that someone else decides how you feel about yourself.” — Noel Bell

For as long as I’ve known “Greg” he’s had an aversion to relationships while at the same time desiring love. He finally got his first relationship and while I was very happy for him, I wasn’t so happy when I heard some of the traits of his partner.

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Former Edu. Psychologist | Current Writer | Constant Learner | “By your stumbling the world is perfected.”

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Former Edu. Psychologist | Current Writer | Constant Learner | “By your stumbling the world is perfected.”

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