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How Classical Mythology Revealed the Truth of My Past Relationships
We all know of Cupid, the chubby little boy with wings who shoots people with arrows to make them fall in love. I found my mind wandering on the cherub for some reason, but then I had a question that I cannot believe I never considered before.
Why the hell does Cupid shoot people to make them fall in love?!
I searched this very question and while I didn’t get the exact answer for my question, I learnt quite a bit more about him.
For starters, I had no idea he was an actual god. He’s the son of love goddess Venus and war god Mars, which I suppose explains the arrows and what the arrows do. That’s my best guess.
Also, he has two types of arrows. The first has a sharp golden point which causes the person who is hit to be filled with uncontrollable desire. The second has a blunt tip of lead which causes the wounded person to run away.
Glad to see attachment theory has its roots in classical mythology!
But there was something else that I found interesting. Cupid is the god of erotic love, attraction and desire. His arrows are about desire, either instilling it or removing it and causing aversion. His name in Latin (Cupido) literally means “desire”.
