Fear is the Bedrock of all Relationship Problems

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People have been talking about love and fear for a long time and in various circles, not just in the arenas of relationships and psychology. But I think we’ve strayed from this to the point that we’ve forgotten that this is the basis of all other problems.

Think about it. If you have anything other than a secure attachment style, it is because you associate fear with connection…

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Former Edu. Psychologist | Current Writer | Constant Learner | “By your stumbling the world is perfected.”

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