Careful what you use to attract people.

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As a kid I realized that some women are very attracted to men (and women) who have a certain financial advantage. And to be fair, there are some guys who are very attracted to women (and men) who hold the same trait.

But I also realized that even if one had a lot of money, it might not be safe to lead with that. I wanted to be chosen for me. If I was rich, then yes, the money is a part of me but…